The old adage on sleeping with your co-workers is simple — don't go where you eat. But is getting it on with your colleague really that bad? Will it automatically make work happy hours anything but happy? Will it make you wish that every meeting was an email? Will you instantly start looking for another job just to get away from your now-former flame? The answer is a whole lot more complicated than meets the eye — just ask the fine, down-bad folks of r/AskReddit.

From decade-spanning marriages to extremely awkward meetings, 27 people share what, exactly went down after they hooked up with one of their fellow employees.